Here's how most of our pictures with Addie turn out these days. A picture of us smiling while trying to contain a blur of energy. And then you end up with a still picture but your kid looks a lot like Popeye the Sailor Baby. But you settle for it, because really, what else can you do?




Addie is eight months old. I'm so tempted to do my usual cliche about time flying or how I can't believe it...but I'm abstaining. Kind of. I guess not really. Oh well, cliches become cliches for a reason.
If I had to choose one word to describe Addie at eight months, I'd probably choose "wonderful". If I had a choose a slightly more descriptive word, I'd go with "active". As demonstrated by the pictures above, Baby Girl is never still and never quiet. She is always on the go, always chatting/shouting, and always funny. She is vigorous in her wants and her affections. If she wants something, she wants it immediately. If she loves you, you'll know it. Her particular marks of affection are grabbing your face with both fists and squeezing with all her might and/or embedding six sharp teeth into any convenient body part that comes her way. Right now I have a scabbed over slash mark on my cheek (darn baby fingernails grow so fast) and teeth marks in an unmentionable place. She is still nursing, let's put it that way. Weaning never looked so good.
Despite the teeth marks, I am glad that Addie is still nursing because that's the only time I see the last remaining vestige of her infant self. She has long, sleepy, dreamy cuddle sessions when she wakes up (7:30 every day, like clockwork) and before bed (this varies a lot, usually around 8). Otherwise, she probably nurses around four times a time, at random times, though almost always before her two naps. She has dropped her third nap and is now sleeping fairly reliably in the morning and afternoon. Morning nap is usually around 10 AM and afternoon nap is around 2 or 3, depending on our activities.
Otherwise, she isn't incredibly scheduled. That's mostly because
I don't want to be on a schedule. If I was working outside the home, or if I had a smaller child to tend as well, I'd probably need more scheduling in my life, but since I'm not and I don't, I'm content to enjoy this relaxed lifestyle with Addiecakes. It's nice on the weekends too, because we can switch gears easily into "family fun time."
Speaking of, we spent the last weekend in Minneapolis with Tim and some of our good friends. We had the BEST time. Tim was there for five days for a conference and we joined him for the weekend. The guys were able to spend some time with us, but otherwise my friends and I enjoyed some wonderful dinners, relaxing hotel time, and the city life.
I had forgotten what a charge of energy I get from the city lifestyle. I love living in Rochester, but there is no doubt that I miss the city. Just walking out of the hotel was invigorating. We were right in the heart of Minneapolis, on Nicollett Mall, which is a great area filled with shops, restaurants, theaters, museums, sports stadiums...you name it, it's there. I'd never spent much time in Minneapolis and I found it far more to my liking than Saint Paul (the city, not the apostle).
We had a great "mom and kids" dinner at the News Room on Friday night, while the guys went to a Twins game.


This was followed by a night out on the town at a tequila bar and a dance club. Needless to say, children were with babysitters. At first, I found it very difficult to relax. I was worried about Addie going to sleep properly, I was worried about being out at all while being a mother, etc. Eventually I was able to relax and realized that it is possible to have a good night out without guilt. There is nothing wrong with trading in your flips for some high heels and your diaper cream for some lipstick. In fact, I think it's probably healthy and I know it did my soul some good to shake out the kinks.
The next night everyone spent time with their individual families. Tim and I went on a long walk through the Loring Greenway with Addie. The Greenway is a public trail that winds through parks and lakes and is decorated with art installations and sculptures. We then decided to go for a late dinner and had some divine Thai food. Adelaide had fallen asleep on our walk and she actually stayed asleep for most of the meal. Tim and I were thrilled to have 1) exotic foreign food we can't get in the Roch and 2) an adult conversation while 3) being able to see our beautiful daughter sleeping peacefully in her stroller.
A family pic from our walk, in front of the "Dandelion" Fountain.


The next morning we went to Tim's dad's house for Sunday lunch. We weren't able to see Grandpa Randy at all, but we did have a nice time with Abuela Terri and Aunt Sylvia. We feel like Sylvia is practically a roommate now (in a good way!) because we'd gotten to spend time with her and Bonnie earlier in the week. They came to Rochester for a few days and we had a blast with them.
Fun with Aunt Bon

Here's a picture of our meal of appetizers followed by a chick flick. We had hummus with carrots and celery, vegetarian sushi, chips with guac, bruschetta, and a cheese platter with crackers and grapes. And wine. Of course.

Sylvia and Bonnie also bought Adelaide a baby pool. She loved it. Video below of her in it. For now, here's a snap of her in Sam's sunglasses

Then it was off to see Fellows United in the championship game. Sadly, Fellows (or FU, as I like to call them) went down in a blaze of glory to a team of mostly African guys (mainly Somalian, I think?) that were extremely quick and skilled with the ball.
Some randomness: Addie loves riding on Dad's shoulders. Tim may go prematurely bald from this, because she holds on for her dear life to his scalp.

This is kind of funny. It's Addie, eating a copy of The Gospel of John, in a translation entitled "The Message." Personally, I loathe The Message translation of anything, and it's especially cruel to the G of J...but I wanted to take this pic solely so I could say "Look, Addie is hungry for the Word!" Christians will get it.

And now for the multimedia portion. Here is Addie, playing with her toys. I love this because it shows the little flashes of temper that she shows when her toys just fail to cooperate. It cracks me up. For now.
This is a video of Addie in her baby pool. It's a bit longer than usual, but she kept doing cute things right when I wanted to cut it off. The voice in the background are me, Sylvia, Bonnie, Bonnie's boyfriend Sam, and their friend Will